I used to be a comedian on cruise ships. But, when my wife and I wanted to start a family, I switched to working on land so I could be home. My wife asked me to help around the house - often. But instead, I’d put in extra hours to pay for a housekeeper. (It seemed logical to me.)
But, after 14 years of marriage, she was done. She had finally had enough of my workaholism, selfishness, and controlling ways. She told me she didn’t love me anymore and asked for a divorce. I was stunned.
The pain was worse than being kicked in the family jewels. (Which, as you know, even when we’re not using them, still really hurts.)
I wanted to reconnect with my wife and repair our marriage. But, she no longer loved, trusted, or respected me. And I felt like a complete failure as a husband and as a man. She immediately moved out and filed for divorce.
Suddenly, my little family was being ripped apart in front of me and I had no idea what to say or what to do to change it. Fortunately, my church had a support group for separated men where husbands learn how to treat their wives the way God intended. (At that time I thought all churches had this kind of program, but, I soon found out that theirs is the ONLY one of its kind!)
So, I joined the group. Each week I learned what I call “gold nuggets,” new ways of doing things that I should have learned years ago. I was still in a lot of pain, but it got better and better each week. That’s when I realized that the secret to relationship success was learning new, specific habits, based on God’s wisdom. I also learned that...
The ONLY way for a husband to reconnect with his wife is by learning these new behaviors.
But, most importantly, I stopped focusing on my issues and started focusing on my relationship with God. I not only learned that I should put my wife first in our relationship (duh), but I also learned exactly how to do that. I learned about simple things I should have been doing all along. So, I started doing them.
She was not only unimpressed, the nice little things I did for her were about as welcome as a hair on a biscuit. But, that didn’t matter, I was feeling better each day.
1 Peter 5:7 says “Give all your worries and
cares to God, for he cares about you.”
And, that’s exactly what I was doing. And, as a result of my “new normal,” I was no longer in any pain. In fact, I felt better than ever! Six months after I joined the support group they asked me to become a leader and help other guys get through it, just like I had.
So, since 2009, I’ve been blessed to be able to help thousands of guys go from being absolutely broken, to having new lives filled with hope, purpose, significance, and happiness - whether they reconcile with their wives or not.
Would you like to feel hopeful, and happy again?
From what I’ve personally seen in the last 14 years, ALL of the husbands who reconnect with their wives, give 100% of the credit to the new habits that they learned from our programs.
That’s why I created Hope For Separated Husbands - to share what’s worked for me, and thousands of other husbands, no matter where they are.
Here’s what most guys typically do to try to get through their separation - you read a whole bunch of information online and hope you remember some method or tactic you can use on your wife so she’ll change her mind and lighten up.
Here’s why that doesn’t work - you have NO control over your wife or what she’s thinking or what she’s been feeling for probably a very long time. And, unless it’s based on God’s wisdom, it’s just a big hodgepodge of ineffective theories and ideas. Some of which could be really disastrous to your relationship.
With Hope For Separated Husbands, you’ll be able to get REALLY healthy, once and for all, and that just happens to be the single most attractive thing you can do for your wife. And there is absolutely NO downside to becoming the man God wants you to be.
Success Stories
"I was a lost and broken man. But with Randy’s help, I now have a stronger relationship with my wife than I ever had, and we’ll falling in love all over again!"
Matt B.
"Working with Randy was amazing! I’m now a better communicator with my wife and we’re working on reconciling. Thank you, Randy!"
Eric P.
"I highly recommend working with Randy. He was there for me when I needed him, and he helped me get out of my own way."
Don H.
"I learned more from Randy about relationships than I ever dreamed possible. And I learned that it’s very important to not go through something like this alone."
Doug F.
"When I was served divorce papers, I immediately started suffering from anxiety, fear, and anger. Randy gave me tools to deal with my situation. I owe Randy more than I could ever thank him for. He was truly a God-sent gift to me, and a real blessing."
Dennis H.
"In short, Randy changed my life. When I started, I felt horrible about how I was handling things. Now I feel good about myself and my new path."
Harvey T.
"I was in tremendous pain. Randy helped me get through the darkest period of my life. I couldn’t have done it without him."
Dr. Ray G.
"I was confused and uncertain about what to do next. Randy brings a toolbox full of creative ideas and solutions for overcoming relational challenges."
Doug W.
"We went from painfully disconnected to reconnected and doing better than ever, in just 8 weeks! I can’t thank Randy enough!"
Nathan M.
"Before joining, I could only perceive my separation as a pointless tragedy. Randy helped me see some purpose in it. Now I’m pointed in a new direction with things that actually make a difference in my life. This program helped me grow in a way that I wasn’t going to find on my own. I can see God working, and now I have peace and hope."
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